Gil Riego Jr.
I am a virgin.
Not from fear. Not from religion. I am a virgin through my personal preference.
I choose to save myself for the right one upon my on own values.
Before I go on, let me answer some questions that may already be on your minds.
“Yes, I have had the opportunity. Hell, I have actually been asked to perform in a sexual role in an Asian-themed pornographic film.”
“No I am not shy with my body.”
“Yes, I am pretty confident.”
“I am baptized Catholic, and the only time I have been to a church in recent memory is when a family member got married, died, or got baptized.”
And “I’ve pretty much done every conventional sexual act except for vaginal or anal penetration.”
Those who know me may be surprised that I am a virgin with the way I interact with the women in my life. I am a flirt; I admit that. I also do tend to view content from adult sites similar to tubevideoshd and others, this is only on occasion though.
But that’s pretty much as far as I take it.
It seems weird to have this role reversal at times. Normally, it is the woman who wants to save herself for “the right one.”
Sex should not be a priority in the grand scheme of things.
Maybe, when procreation was needed for more hands to work the farm, but it should not be as abundant as it is today.
Sex is a form of passion that needs to be shared with that person who holds your heart.
It should not be something that you plan to hunt for as so many college students do when they frequent clubs or bars.
If I was to fall in love with a woman, I would fall in love with the way she holds my hand, how I get lost when I gaze into her eyes and how she makes me laugh.
Call me idealistic but these are what I look for instead of “How huge her titties are” or How bangin’ that ass is.”
I mean, I notice them because I am only human, but those are not what meet the criteria for who I want to have sex with.
I am not looking for spontaneous sex that everyone brags about.
I am not the “notch-on-the-bedpost”-type.
I do not want to wonder if the girl I slept with last night had any feelings for me or if it was the alcohol.
Nor do I want to wonder if she is going to go psychotic on me because I did not call her the day after. I am not looking for the sexual conquest that many men do.
My choice of being abstinent is something that I am not ashamed to tell anyone.
In fact, here it is, in bold caps:
I AM SAVING MYSELF FOR THE RIGHT WOMAN!
And if any of you readers are virgins, there is no reason for you to be shy about it either.
Be proud of your conviction. You are a part of a vastly dying group: those who honor their bodies and their emotions.
With people having sex as young as 12-years-old, I find it amazing that there could be people over the age of 18 whom have not had intercourse.
I try to live by the credo, “If it’s going to happen, have it mean something.”
I apply that to everything in my life.
And when I finally have sex, it will mean something, because it will be with someone who means something to me.
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